In this vibrant city of lights, love and laughter, there’s really no reason why you should get stuck in the rut of old-fashioned dating – I’m talking about the conventional dinner and movie dates, those madly overdone outdoor picnics and 10 pin bowling sessions. Whether you’re on the threshold of holy matrimony or are just flirting your heart out, maybe it’s time you switched it up with these Top 10 ‘Out of the Box’ Date Ideas!
1. Pick Your Date’s Brain At A Historical Museum
Personally, I find a smart and intelligent man extremely attractive! We already live in a society that doesn’t invest in substance as often as it should, so a partner with brains is definitely one to hold onto. Lure your date into one of the city’s amazing historical museums and spark a real conversation. The Apartheid Museum is a definite South African classic. Alternatively, you can pay the South African National Museum of Military History or the James Hall Transport Museum a visit.
2. Break The Rules Of Gravity At Bounce Inc.
Bring out the child in both of you with a thrilling session at Bounce Inc. If you’re still a little nervous around the person you’re currently dating, why not bounce the butterflies away? This is the perfect way to loosen up and bring out your light-hearted side. Plus, bouncing around on all those trampolines and maybe even engaging in a game of springy dodgeball is super fun!
3. Say Hello To A Little Sensual Fun The Burlesque Way
If you fall more on the adventurous side of life and are with someone who’s equally daring (or maybe you want to bring a shy guy or girl out of his or her shell), try attending a burlesque show together. This is a unique form of entertainment that will help you unwind, and break any barriers of sexual expression in your relationship.
4. Explore The Gorgeous Joburg City Together
Enjoy the best sites the city has to offer … aboard the Red City tour bus! This is a beautiful way to discover (or simply re-explore) the city’s major attractions, while in the company of someone you adore. The best part of it all is that you won’t be confined to the bus for the entire tour, which will diversify your time spent together. You might want to follow this up with a quiet lunch away from the crowd for something a bit more intimate. I suggest Love Food in Braamfontein for a comfy, cheerful and affordable experience. The Secret Garden in Fourways is just as big a winner with its scrumptious bites and tranquil gardens away from the city buzz.
5. Trade In Your Local Haunt For A Brekkie Date At Home
If you fancy some quiet time away from the hustle and bustle of the concrete jungle, then abandon the predictable evening rendezvous for a lovely breakfast date. Put together a delectable meal and enjoy the subtle yet romantic sting of the morning air in each other’s company. Remember, the morning represents a brand new page in your chapter, so make your date that first impactful line! (Just don’t forget the coffee.)
6. Test Drive A Car You Can’t Afford
Grab the object (aka person) of your affection and put your foot on the accelerator of that one dream machine that’s a little (or a lot) out of your financial reach. If anything, this will allow the two of you to envision your possible future together while having the time of your life … and you might as well channel your inner Enzo Ferrari while doing so.
7. Dance The ‘Shy’ Away
For one, dancing is a hell of a lot of fun and can be wildly romantic … but more importantly, it forges a good level of intimacy. If you’re seeing someone new and would like to fast track your connection, a dance lesson or two will create ample opportunity for consistent touch and eye contact. After all, it does take two to … (you know the rest!) Dance Junxion in Rosebank specialises in Latin American, ballroom, Argentine tango, salsa, hip hop, modern dancing, open contemporary, rhythm tap, and ballet – simply take your pick!
8. Lights, Camera … Pose In Their Arms!
Enough with the selfies and badly shot videos, people! Why not book a professional outdoor photo shoot for you and your significant other? With Joburg’s dazzling scenery as your backdrop, you can’t go wrong! This will provide room for the two of you to collaborate creatively and create long-lasting memories. For high-standard photography in Joburg, go with Tymphanic Vision. They have a range of packages on offer to suit your personal needs.
9. Get Matching Tattoos
This one is definitely for a couple that has been together for a long period of time (unless you’re super-impulsive but that’s another story). Even though you don't know what tomorrow will bring, if you’re planning on spending the rest of your lives together, why not take the plunge? Joburg boasts an abundance of top-notch tattoo parlours that will have you looking like the world’s number one couple. Visit Emerald Rain Tattoos on the famous Gleneagles Road in Greenside, or try the Tattoo Crew in Melville. Both spots are popular for their elegant and delicate line work. If you ask me, as much as laughter brings two people closer, so does pain.
10. Team Up For An Acting Or Singing Audition
With Joburg being the hub of entertainment, there are plenty of auditions held on a daily basis. Who knows, you might just become the next superstar couple. And if that doesn't pan out, well at least you tickled your mischief bone and had a ball with the one who matters the most to you!
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